So I would like to hear people stories of when they started masturbating, and what kind of conversation if any did your parents/guardians have with you.
For myself, I started when I was 13, and I thought it was a sin and was very scared every time i did it, I never talked to anyone about it because I was so scared of what they would say if they found out.
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ReplyDeleteI grew up in a fairly religious family and went to a Christian school for middle and high school. Surprisingly, our school didn't really talk about masturbation and how it was bad.. though there was a lot of talk about sex. I was so freaked out about sex for a long time. In fact, when I finally did it for the first time in college, I felt so guilty.
Anyway, back to masturbation.. My first time was at 13. It wasn't until long after I'd started playing with myself that I really heard how masturbation was a sin. (Though that still didn't stop me!)
And I was *way* too shy to go to my parents and talk about it. They never brought it up.. not even during the awkward sex talks. :)
Very religious family. Everything was wrong. Mom whisked me out of the bathtub about age 8 - "we don't play with our organs, Darling!"
ReplyDeleteWhat did she mean? I knew there was an organ at church. Now I know she saw me with a boner.
I was already masturbating most days - had a secret place after that. Scared me shitless.
Was nottold about penis and vagina until my buddy Patrick told me the truth during a History lesson @ school. Freaked me out.
I remember brother & sister watching the first time I made a dribble of cum.
I don't think this religious obsession with sex is normal, healthy or interests Jesus, Allah, Buddah, Krishna, YHWH in the slightest.
Went to church every sunday but it was my aunt, uncle and grandma that I went with. My parents and sisters aren't christian. I am the last of the group that goes to church now.
ReplyDeleteI learned about masterbation from a cousin at age 12. He is the same age. He had porn and we looked at it and masterbated together. It wasn't until I was 14 and we got a new preacher that I first heard that masterbating was a bad thing. I asked my uncle and he said it was okay since I wasn't having sex. He told me that god has so much to oversee that one boy playing with himself is minor and will be forgiven because there is so much worse I could be doing.
I never looked back after that.
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ReplyDeleteThis sight needs to be better-publicised.No one knows it is hear.
ReplyDeleteThis is a dead sort of a blog. Maybe the owner died & went to heaven. But if people read and commented more it might be a usefull resource for knowledge about how boys experience growing up.
ReplyDeleteMust be the case that the owner of this blog has jacked so much and been so guilty that now he has gotten into a psych ward. Pity his mommy never sent him to Camp Jack in the Boxers as a pre-teen to learn some healthy attitudes to his body. Give it a few more years and he will be a child-molestor, rapist, serial arsonist or Catholic Priest
ReplyDeleteAnonymous! I just got into this blog today and am catching up on everything. You make perfect sense, and I hope you see this and haven't given up on it. It is HEALTHY, INFORMATIVE AND FUN group to read and participate! There is a 0% population of boys who have never eventually found out about jacking off; if there were, our population would way down! irt is the "training period" for marriage or happiness in the gay lifestyle. For myself I consider both of those options GOOD, VALID and NOT SINFUL! I'd love to get to know you better.
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